Overcome your fear

In case we are fearful.

Fear is the worst enemy of a person. It doesn’t let you sleep. It doesn’t let you work. It doesn’t let you do anything. You’re in extreme condition all the time. The best way to overcome fear is to face it. Yes. Go ahead and face it. By then only you’ll overcome it. Whatever kind of fear you have. You can overcome it by facing it. If you are fearful of heights, go and climb the mountain or anything which is at a height. Keep going up and coming down almost every day or whenever you have time until you become fearless. If you do so, it’ll change into a habit and fear will go away forever. Remember, whatever kind of fear you have whether it is Public speaking, English speaking, facing interview, etc. Just go ahead and do it if you want to remove your fear. Fear is nothing but a creation of your own mind. It could be due to an incident that might have taken place at some point of time. As a result, your sub conscious mind got it and believed it. It also happens in case you have developed a wrong belief about something. You might have heard something wrong about it, and you started believing it or it could be circumstantial, which might have occurred due to adverse conditions in life such as financial losses, etc. In case it is a creation of your own mind, then go ahead and face it. In case of circumstantial, which might have occurred due to certain unavoidable conditions, you need to think over it.

In case you’re not able have control over your emotions because you are afraid of the outcome that may take place due to that. Be mentally prepared for that. Think of the worst that could happen in case you’ve decided to face it. The worst fear could be losing someone if you’re in a relationship, or it could be financial losses or it could be losing image in the eye of your own people, it could be anything, whatever is important to you. Under any of the above circumstances, it’s not so easy to decide whether to face it or avoid it. It’s a very common thing. We are human beings and we love to be respected or to stay very close to loved ones, we don’t want to lose anything which means a lot to us. The question here is; then, what to do? The answer to this question is; it totally depends on your gut feeling. If you’re kind of a person who went ahead and got the operation done in case of a wound, then go ahead and get it cured or else feel the pain every day until it gets converted into cancer. Then you might not have a chance to get it cured once it has grown up as cancer. What I am trying to say here is; it’s completely your take. If you are stuck in a kind of problem, which is surely to come today or tomorrow, let’s face it today and get rid of it forever. You can do this by thinking of the worst and by accepting it mentally so that you won’t get a heart attack or be shocked in case that happens the worst happens to you.

Fear is the worst enemy of all, so kill it before it kills you.

Decide to be happy

Happiness has no price and no definition as such. People go to a laughter club just to release their stress and try to be happy. However, this doesn’t help keep them happy always not even for the entire day. The happiness comes from within. You might have experienced a person around you who doesn’t worry about anything and always look happy. Does that mean that he has all the best things of this world? Does that mean that he doesn’t need anything to live? Does that mean that he doesn’t have longings for anything else? It simply means that he has decided to be happy. It means that he is in a habit of being happy. Yes. You have to DECIDE TO BE HAPPY. You have to CHOOSE TO REMAIN HAPPY. You have to DEVELOP A HABIT TO REMAIN HAPPY. Anything can be achieved by developing a habit and if we decide to achieve that. Try this. Try to think of yourself as a comedy character like the famous Mr. Bean when you are alone. Watch his video. Copy him. Try to copy his body language, his expression almost everything you can. It sounds a little childish.  However, who in the entire worlds is happier than a child. Sometimes you have to act childish to remain happy or to take your mind in that happy state. If you find it difficult to do, try this. Think of a child you love the most whenever you feel sad or play some music, watch your favourite movie clips on your laptop or mobile. Do whatever it takes for you to remain happy. To summarise, the first step is DECIDE TO BE HAPPY and the second step is DEVELOP A HABIT TO REMAIN HAPPY by following those simple small steps.

Follow these simple steps we’ll talk more on this in the next part.

J

It costs nothing to smile!

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Be confident about life

When you don't feel confident about life. Repeat the following statement several times in  a day ' I am a lovely child of God, I have all the rights to be happy. He's surely going to help me out. I surrender myself to him without any reservation.' Feel confident about what you say. Offer all your problems to him and be rest assured that he'll help you out. Have great faith in his power and kindness. Understand problems never come without solutions. If there is a problem there has to be a solution. Problem is the real GURU of life. It helps you grow. So.........No worries...........cheer up!!!!!!!!!!

The power of silence - Part II

You can hear your inner voice in complete silence. This is when you are in a position to receive wisdom from the universe. When you look at the outer world for any kind of help or anything, you tend to underestimate your potentials. For the entire universe is inside you. You feel that there is tremendous power that lies inside you when you try to unite yourself with infinite. You see that you have all solutions to your problems inside you. You don’t need to look at somebody from the outside from any sort of help. It is just that you need to practice it and try to reach a point where you can hear your inner voice. Our body is a means to establish a connection with Infinite (God) in which lies a soul. We all have pure souls, which have faded out. What we all need to do is to reach out to purity level where we are in a unity with infinite. Where we can identify ourselves and know who we are and what the purpose of our lives is. It is possible through silence. Silence is our strength. It is a strong way to reach out Infinite. It has worked for everybody. It’ll work for you. We all have experienced that all great monks have achieved their goals through the power of silence. We call it ‘Tapasya',’ which is very much putting oneself into complete silence and establishing an association with God. We don’t require to do any sort of ‘Tapasya’ today. However, to realize or notice our great potential, we need to develop a habit of putting ourselves into complete silence for at least 15-20 minutes every day. At your will or convenience, you may increase the time frame, and I am sure it’ll work for you like a magic.

God bless!

The power of silence

Sometimes silence is the answer of all your questions. If you are not able to decide on something, just close your eyes and be quiet for some time. Try to establish a connection with the Infinite (God) and seek an answer from him. When you are doing it for the first time, you may not be successful. You may not be able to listen to what it has to say to you because you have stopped hearing it since long. You are so much attracted to your outer world, that you have kept ignoring your inner world. However, if you include it in your daily routine and make sure that you go into silence for 10-15 minutes every day, either in the morning after you wake up or at night before you go to bed. I am sure you will be able to listen to your inner voice, which is very much present inside everyone. Understand one thing; you have the entire universe inside you. Feel the tremendous power that God has provided you. Never underestimate yourself or your strength. Listen to your inner voice; reactivate its power by just going into silence. If you can start doing it henceforth, you will experience miraculous change in your life.

Givings

The first step to get something is to give something. If you aren't a good giver, you can't be a good receiver. If you want to be blessed, start blessing others. If you want to have a good amount of respect, start respecting others. Whatever you give that comes back to you in an increased amount. A person who has reached the top, they have understood it well.

Remember: You can only receive if you give.

Quotes

Napoleon Hill:
You are searching for the magic key that will unlock the door to the source of power; and yet you have the key in your own hands, and you may use it the moment you learn to control your thoughts.
Tyron Edwards:
Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny.

Losers Vs Leaders

Losers Vs Leaders
Losers: I have learnt enough and I don’t need to learn anything.
Leaders: Learning is a process. We must keep learning for our growth.
Losers: There is no solution to this problem.
Leaders: There has to be a solution to this problem as it never comes alone.
Losers: They discourage you when you fail and say something, like ‘I had warned you not to do it.
Leaders: They encourage you when you fail and say something like. ‘Take your failure as learning
experience. You’re very close to success.”
Losers: Losers are poor in action. They believe in exaggeration.
Leaders: Leaders believe in a philosophy “action speaks louder than words.”
Losers: When losers are given responsibilities. They say ‘Why me?’
Leaders: When leaders are given responsibilities. They accept it whole heartedly?’
Losers: Losers don’t believe in ‘a journey of thousands miles starts with single step’.
Leaders: Leaders watch every step and plan it in advance.
Losers: Losers say there is nothing but problems.
Leaders: Leaders say there is no problem at all when there is a problem.
Losers: Losers take challenges as burden.
Leaders: Leaders take it as an adventure.
Losers: Losers lose their hope in adverse condition.
Leaders: Leaders take it as an opportunity.
Losers: Losers feel dishearten when things don’t work.
Leaders: Leaders try to find ways when things don’t work.
Losers: Losers try to keep their ideas to themselves and don’t discuss it at all.
Leaders: Leaders believe in discussing new ideas.
Losers: Losers don’t appreciate the creative work or new idea. They feel that it won’t work.
Leaders: Leaders go ahead and try to do a new thing. They are creators.
Losers: They believe in remaining a follower or a competitor for their whole life.
Leaders: Leaders are creators.

Get your basics right

Today life can be explained as a race. We need everything in a short span of time. However, we end up getting nothing but frustration because we don’t have time to think or analyses or plan our work or accept the fact that things take time, and we have to be patient enough until we get it. Here is a thing; are we ready to give whatever it takes to get whatever, we have ever wanted? The answer will be ‘I don’t have time’. The reason why a person doesn’t have a time because, he is part of the race and wants to get something very quickly. Everybody wants to be ahead of time, which is not a wrong thinking. However, we have to keep one thing in mind that ‘Rome was not built in a day’. That means we have to keep ourselves moving and be in the process for things to turn up right. This way we’ll achieve our goal. Hurrying a thing only lands you up in trouble. You may think over the followings;

A)     Plan your work and work the plan

B)      Be logical, don’t over expect from yourself.

C)      Choose a right date by when you are able achieve your goal and be patient with the time.

D)     Be focused.

I would like to die happily

I would like to achieve my goals within this life. I have been given one life so I want to make the most of it. By the age of fifty I would like to achieve my materialistic goal and gradually and slowly I will try to move to spiritual world so that I can become spiritual. Money gives you happiness as well as an opportunity to serve the mankind better. Why I am saying this because without money you can't extend your help to many people. Money is important but, at the same time, we should not forget that God has sent us with a special message and that is 'Be happy and make others happy'.

Once I have achieved my materialistic goal, I would like to grow higher spiritually. This way, I would be able to die happily.

Change your thoughts, change your destiny

Our thoughts are like seeds. A seed has the power to germinate a tree. A famous proverb is 'as you sow as you reap,. In the same fashion, our thoughts play role of a seed. If your thoughts are pure and positive, you attract good things in our lives. If it is full of impurities and negativity, it creates all the nuisance for you that you never want to have in your life.

Scientists say that ' Whatever a man can believe, he can achieve' everything in this world is made of energy including our body. Our body is made of five things: Air, Fire, Water, Sky and earth. All the five things are made of energy which proves that our body is made of energy because we have five things in our body and infinite number of cells as well. We create things in reality, when we think of something over and over again it doesn't matter whether your thoughts are positive or negative. Whatever you focus on expands and gets created. 

If you go back and turn some pages of your life, you'll be surprised to know that incidents or things which appeared to you was because you thought of it en number of times. You kept thinking about them. It may be out of fear or jealous or joy. It could be anything. Universe acts on your thoughts and it understand that you want it, if you think of something all the time. It doesn't understand whether that will work in your favour or against. It is you who have to decide before you think of anything. Think of those things only which you want.

You have the power to change your destiny. You have the power to create a life as you have ever wanted. You have the power to live life a king size. You just need to take control over bad emotions. Think of only those things that you want to have in your life. Just be focussed and place your full faith in God. There should be no doubt about it. Understand, now you have changed your thoughts and you are thinking of only those things that you have always wanted to have in your life. You are going to attract them like a magnet. 

3 indispensable tools

You need 3 things to make your dream come true.
1. visualize it.
2. feel it.
3. live it.

Good luck folks!

Winning Strategy!

To win or succeed in your life, you need to have 3 things:

Samarpan  (Dedication)

Atmbal (Self-confidence)

Tyag (Sacrifice)

Samarpan leads you to give your 100%. Atmabal helps you give your 100%. Tyag keeps you detached and motivated if anything goes wrong after you have given your 100%.

In the moment of Crisis!

At this time, we tend to close our mind because of massive external pressure that is more than sufficient to kill us. We do not try to explore any avenues. It is just a thing that we start saying ‘ I am finished’ or ‘the game is over’. We strongly start believing that and in the end we are finished. However, if we take a few proactive steps , we’ll be able to look at the available avenues around us; In the moment crisis, take a pen and paper and go to a quiet place where nobody can disturb you, not even your cell phone. Switch it off. Get to the root cause of the problem. Write it down. Yes, Write it down so that you have something in front of you. Once you have done that, look for the solutions. Try to look around you. What can be done with the available resources that you have? You may feel that the resources or things that you have may not be enough to solve the entire thing. Don’t worry. Go ahead. Try to solve it with the available resources. You’ll feel confident and will be able to find our more avenues like that.

Good luck.

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De-stress yourself!

You need to do two things to de-stress yourself no matter wherever you are! Play your favorite music and read some good books, which can give you some bit of motivation. I can’t tell you to what extent a motivational book can stimulate you but trust me, it will unquestionably recharge you for some time and help you concentrate on your work.

Where learning can be fun, at the same time it gives so much knowledge and keeps you improved and incited (motivated).

Njoy!

Life is too short to live.

Yesterday on 1 Jan, 2010 I got the news that Kunal , who was a student of our institute, was killed by someone on 31^st night. He was just 20 years old and was a brilliant student. In the morning on 31^st Dec, 2009 when I was taking session he looked quite happy and was enjoying with his classmates. After the session got over, he touched my feet and asked me to give him blessings. I thought what kind of student he was. He still had so much of respect for his ‘Guru’. I don’t know what might have happened with him. He is no more. This news alone was so horrifying for me. I can’t believe that he is not alive. I can’t forget his smiling face.

In our day to day life we are so entangled with our work that we forget to care for our loved ones, who means a lot to us. We never have time for anything. We never say ‘ Hello’ or ‘Hi’ or express our feelings to them. We think that we’ll express our feelings some other time.

It only takes few words to say ‘ I love you’ , ‘ I care for you’. or to express your feelings that how much you love someone or care for someone.

May God give this world peace and harmony!